The Difference Between Spoiled and Strong Is How You Get What You Want

Every parenting expert says the same thing: "Don't give them what they want or they'll be spoiled." And yeah — if kids get everything handed to them without earning it, they do get lazy. But here's what nobody tells you: those same wants, when kids earn them the right way, make them STRONGER instead of spoiled. The wants aren't the problem. They never were. It's HOW you get them that determines who you become.