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4 LAWS BASICS
$35 COURSE
The complete self-paced video course. Learn all 4 LAWS at your own speed.
Perfect for: Self-starters who learn well independently.
What's Included:
ALL Videos (5-Session Course)
Presentation Slides for every video
Downloadable worksheets
Lifetime access
Trade-up to Premium course option
PREMIUM COURSES
Youth, Parent and Adult Courses
Youth Course
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What’s Included:
All 13 training videos (same as parents get)
6 Youth Practice Worksheets
12 "If You Were the Parent" Scenarios
Find the Need Tool
Sanctuary Practice Room
Culture Bearer Certificate (wallet-sized ID card)
Lifetime access to course
“It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.”
“Children are not things to be molded, but people to be unfolded.”
EDUARDO M. BUSTAMANTE, Ph.D.
Clinical & Child Psychologist
Author of The 4 LAWS of Trust and Talent
Founder, 4 LAWS Academy
www.4lawsacademy.com
Dear Parent,
My name is Eduardo Bustamante — but kids call me Dr. B.
Your child just asked for something unusual.
Normally, we train parents first. They learn the 4 LAWS. They become Culture Bearers. The home transforms from the top down.
But some kids don't wait.
These are the ones who fight for justice — sometimes the wrong way. They get labeled difficult. Defiant. Too much.
They're not bad. They're frustrated. They want freedom. They want control. They want to matter.
We can't force this training on a child. We wouldn't. It doesn't work that way.
But when a young person asks to master the 4 LAWS — when they find this page on their own — something different happens.
Your child just asked.
Part of them wants more control, more things. That's normal. That's the hunger that brought them here. But that's only at the start.
Once they discover the true power of the 4 LAWS, the transformation begins. We don't suppress that fire — we aim it.
We light the fire of their talent and watch them grow in trust.
Parents and children who are best friends — not adversaries.
Siblings who become faithful companions.
A family with passionate interests and gifted creations.
Children who know right from wrong early — because they chose it.
This is what the 4 LAWS build.
Consider taking the course together. Learn the same language. Share the same compass. Become the family you both dream of.
"Children are not things to be molded, but people to be unfolded."
— JESS LAIRWith hope for your family,
Dr. B
35 Years Helping Families Thrive
Say yes to your child's instinct to lead.
Enroll My Child Learn more about the 4 LAWS →$75 one-time · Lifetime access · Your co-signature on their certificate
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Adult Course
Trust-Ability Course: Complete Practice Systems for Individuals and Families
Learn the 4 LAWS, then practice applying them to real situations until alignment becomes automatic. This is where knowledge becomes mastery.
Perfect for: People who want more than knowledge — they want mastery.
What’s Included:
Presentation Slides for every video
Individualized Exercise Sheets
12 Practice Scenarios with detailed 4 LAWS responses
Role-Play Training Protocol
Situation Room Access
Downloadable Exercise Worksheets
Lifetime access
Optional: Add Audiobook (+$10)
Live Training
TRUST-ABILITY TRANSFORMATION COURSE
Live online course delivered via Zoom where you learn directly from Dr. B and connect with others transforming their relationships.
Perfect for: Anyone who wants direct guidance, community support, and real-time Q&A.
What’s Included:
8 weekly live Zoom sessions with Dr. B
Small group format (personalized attention)
Weekly implementation assignments
Troubleshoot your specific challenges
Email support between sessions (48-hour response)
Connect with other 4 LAWS learners
24 Advanced Scenarios
Expanded Presentation Slides (deeper material)
Teaching Page Access**
Audiobook included
Certificate of completion
FREE RESOURCES
Not sure if the 4 LAWS can work for your personal relationships?
Start Here
Download our free guides. These laws work in every relationship—including the one with yourself.
Introduction to the 4 LAWS: Get the overview in 15 minutes - Understand the framework before diving deeper
Kids Introduction to 4 LAWS Booklet: Share the concepts with young people in age-appropriate language.
First Aid (Condensed Course): For exhausted people who need answers NOW
Choose Your Path
From Forced Goodness to Chosen Goodness — at your own pace
| What's Included | Free $0 | Basic $35 | Premium $75 | Live $295 |
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| Parent Intro Course (15 min) | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Kid Intro Course (15 min) | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| 2 AM Condensed PDF | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Worksheets | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Limited Intro Videos | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| ALL Videos (Full Course) | — | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Presentation Slides | — | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Audiobook: "The 4 LAWS of Trust & Talent"* | — | +$10 | +$10 | ✓ |
| Individualized Exercise Sheets | — | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| 12 Practice Scenarios | — | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Role-Play Training | — | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Situation Room Access | — | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| 24 Advanced Scenarios | — | — | — | ✓ |
| Expanded Presentation Slides | — | — | — | ✓ |
| Live Instructor Support | — | — | — | ✓ |
| Teaching Page Access** | — | — | — | ✓ |
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* Audiobook available as add-on for Basic and Premium courses. Included with Live course.
** Teaching Page Access requires: (1) Complete Live Course (2) Join the 4 LAWS Academy Culture Center
FEATURED PUBLICATIONS
Book Only
O P T I O N 1
Learn how the 4 LAWS culture works and what it means to build trust in your relationships.
Perfect for: Anyone who wants to understand the framework before committing to deeper work.
What you'll discover:
Why "forced goodness" destroys trust in any relationship
How the 4 LAWS create conditions where people WANT to connect
Real stories of transformation from conflict to genuine connection
The talent cascade that turns opposition into passion
Complete Set (Book + Training Manual)
O P T I O N 2
O P T I O N 3
The book explains WHY relationships struggle. The Training Manual shows you exactly WHAT to do, step by step, to transform your connections.
Perfect for: Anyone ready to commit to real, lasting change.
What you get:
The 4 LAWS of Trust and Talent (comprehensive book)
Step-by-step Training Manual Workbook with exercises
Implementation guides for each law
Troubleshooting common challenges
Weekly action plans for building your 4 LAWS culture.
For Clinicians
Dr. Eduardo Bustamante's 2000 book "Treating the Disruptive Adolescent" introduced the foundation: choice + mastery = true self. The 4 LAWS method expands this proven approach to transform not just oppositional behavior, but your entire relationship culture permanently.
Clinician Handbook
PREPARE FOR THE AVALANCHE OF ENERGY:
WHEN CHOICE + MASTERY + 4 LAWS REIGNS
PROFESSIONAL SERVICES
Coaching & Consulting
Individual implementation support for applying the 4 LAWS in your life
Personal coaching for those ready to do the deep work
Organizational consulting for developing self-directed, trust-based cultures
Psychological Services
School advocacy support
Clinical services
4 LAWS Groups
LIGHTHOUSE
4 LAWS AT HOME + LIGHTHOUSE SCHOOL
= Complete Transformation
This isn't homeschooling alone
It's structured freedom with real credentials
“At LightHouse we approach education differently. We change the question from “What do I have to do?” to “What can I do?”
Quote from the Lighthouse Holyoke website