SOLUTIONS
Find the Option that Works Best for You
FEATURED PUBLICATIONS
O P T I O N 1
Book Only
Learn how the 4 Laws culture works and what it means to build a culture of trust and talent in your home.
Perfect for: Parents who want to understand the framework before committing to deeper work.
What you'll discover:
- Why "forced goodness" destroys parent-child trust
- How the 4 LAWS create conditions where children WANT to cooperate
- Real family stories of transformation from constant fighting to genuine connection
- The talent cascade that turns opposition into passion
O P T I O N 2
COMPLETE SET (BOOK + TRAINING MANUAL)
The book explains WHY your family is struggling. The Training Manual shows you exactly WHAT to do, step by step, to transform your home.
Perfect for: Parents ready to commit to real, lasting change in their family culture.
What you'll get:
- The 4 LAWS of Trust and Talent (comprehensive book)
- Step-by-step Training Manual Workbook with exercises
- Implementation guides for each law
- Troubleshooting common challenges
- Weekly action plans for building your 4 LAWS culture
For Clinicians
Clinician Handbook
Dr. Eduardo Bustamante's 2000 book "Treating the Disruptive Adolescent" introduced the foundation: choice + mastery = true self. The 4 LAWS method expands this proven approach to transform not just oppositional behavior, but your entire family culture permanently.
PREPARE FOR THE AVALANCHE OF ENERGY: WHEN CHOICE + MASTERY + 4 LAWS REIGNS
FREE RESOURCES
Start Here
Not sure if the 4 LAWS is right for your family?
Download our free introduction guides and test the approach risk-free.
Parents Introduction to the 4 LAWS: Get the overview in 15 minutes - Understand the framework before diving deeper
Kids Introduction to 4 LAWS Booklet: Share the concepts with your children in age-appropriate language
Helpful Parenting Condensed Workbook Course: Mini-workbook to test the approach with your family
Training Programs
DIGITAL LEARNING:
Helpful Parenting: From Forced Goodness to Chosen Goodness
Can't attend live training? This self-paced video course guides you through implementing the 4 LAWS at your own speed.
Perfect for: Busy parents who need flexibility or families not ready for live coaching.
What’s included:
4-module video series (Training Manual in video format)
Companion workbook (PDF)
Download worksheets and implementation guides
Lifetime access to all materials
Watch, pause, practice, repeat at your own pace
Live Training
TRUST-ABILITY TRANSFORMATION COURSE
Live online course delivered via Zoom where you learn directly from Dr. B and connect with other families transforming their cultures.
Perfect for: Families who want direct guidance, community support, and real-time Q&A.
8 weekly live Zoom sessions with Dr. B
Small group format (personalized attention)
Weekly implementation assignments
Troubleshoot your specific family challenges
Email support between sessions (48-hour response)
Connect with other 4 LAWS families
Certificate of completion
What happens:
THE ACADEMY
4 LAWS Culture Center
Learn Through Belonging. Transform Through Culture.
Perfect for: Families committed to the 4 LAWS who want ongoing support, community connection, and continued learning.
Dedicated forums for each of the 4 LAWS
Learn from Dr. B and other 4 LAWS families
Share challenges and celebrate wins
Weekly live sessions with Dr. B
Resource library with implementation tools
What you get:
[Coming Soon - Under Development]
PROFESSIONAL SERVICES
Coaching & Consulting
Individual implementation support for creating a 4 LAWS culture
Professional development for practitioners wanting to integrate 4 LAWS and Helpful Parenting
Organizational consulting for developing self-directed, trust-based cultures
Psychological Services
School advocacy support
Clinical services
LIGHTHOUSE
4 LAWS AT HOME + LIGHTHOUSE SCHOOL
= Complete Transformation
This isn't homeschooling alone
It's structured freedom with real credentials
“At LightHouse we approach education differently. We change the question from “What do I have to do?” to “What can I do?”
Quote from the Lighthouse Holyoke website