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WHAT’S 4 LAWS
For families. For couples. For self. For youth. For survivors. For seekers. Wherever you are
CHOOSE YOUR PATH
TESTIMONIALS
Voices of Transformation
Real Families. Real Change.
Better Communication
"4 LAWS have helped me to be a better mom for my kids; to be able to understand them and communicate positively."
4 LAWS is Fun
"4 LAWS is fun, like if my mom does something wrong, we go through the 4 LAWS and we come out best friends."
4 LAWS Helped My Marriage
"Since learning the 4 LAWS, my husband has become my rock and biggest supporter. He sees the good in me even when I can't see it myself. The 4 LAWS gave us tools to build this crazy, wonderful life together while raising amazing kids."
4 LAWS + Self-Directed School
"4 LAWS at home and Lighthouse school changed everything. They liberated me from the totalitarianism of public school. That place was horrible. I finally found where I belong."
From Emotional Death to Creative Life
"My son was emotionally dead and paralyzed. Months of IEP meetings, medication and therapy did nothing. When Dr. B suggested Lighthouse, everything changed. They allowed him to be himself — listless, late, whatever he needed. A year later, he's producing music, coding, building PCs, and directing projects. I was losing my beautiful child to resentment. Now he gets up early and works late."
Thanks to the 4 LAWS
"Today, thanks to these laws, I feel that my children have a home where emotional safety, belonging, and creativity flourish. As a mother, I feel more at peace because I know I am giving them not just advice, but principles that will accompany them throughout their lives. Thank you Dr. Bustamante for accompanying us for 12 years."
The Right Tools
"Dr. Eduardo Bustamante fue una pieza clave en la vida de mis hijos y la mía. Como persona, es una gran inspiración. Como psicólogo, te da las herramientas correctas para el crecimiento de cada familia. Gracias por darme lo que necesitaba para transformar la vida de mis hijos y la mía. Eres el mejor."
I Finally Stopped Fighting Battles I Could Never Win
"Before the 4 LAWS, every day felt like a war zone. My son has a hearing impairment, and on top of that — constant fighting with siblings, talking back, pushing every button. I was exhausted. Always on edge.
I thought being a good mom meant correcting every bad behavior the moment it happened. But all that 'correcting' just made things worse.
The 4 LAWS showed me: stop feeding the bad. Start feeding the good.
The other day, my son spoke to me in an ugly, disrespectful tone. I felt the old anger rising. But this time I stopped. I didn't yell. I calmly picked up the TV cable, walked to my room, and closed the door.
A few minutes later, he came to find me — humble, ready to listen. We actually talked without it turning into a screaming match. That never would have happened before.
Then his teacher told me his English level went up. He's more focused. More cooperative. So I told him how proud I was — because now I know to catch him being good.
He started getting negative, like he does sometimes. And instead of arguing or trying to convince him, I just smiled and said, 'Okay, bye,' and walked away. No drama. No power struggle. Just peace.
I'm not a perfect mom. But I'm finally a calm mom. A mom who knows that love isn't about controlling my kids — it's about guiding them with faith."
"From Caterpillar to Butterfly"
"The 4 LAWS are like the life cycle of a butterfly — a complete transformation process. First, Dr. B earns your trust by creating a safe environment. Then he helps you discover your talent, and you begin to flow with new energy.
What impacts me most is that Eduardo doesn't just teach these laws — he lives them. He uses them as a father, husband, neighbor, and professional. There are so many lost families who think there's no solution, especially with today's mental health challenges. These 4 LAWS are the tools they need.
I thank God for putting Dr. B in our path. He has transformed my family. May many more families be blessed by this man and his message."