She Thought She Was the Problem
My wife had to travel. So I ran an experiment. Remove everything she normally does for them and see what the kids are actually capable of. What happened over the next two years changed how I understood everything — including her.
I Used My Own Kids to Test My Theory
After almost 30 years of watching authoritative parenting fail the kids who needed it most, I stopped writing about the 4 LAWS and ran the experiment in my own house. I put my name on it. If my kids didn't make it, it was on me. That was over six years ago. I just got my answer.