4 LAWS PRACTICE
Mental Filter
Find the need. Always find the need first.
The Relationship
Think of a relationship causing tension. Who is it with?
💡 Use your phone's microphone to dictate
Your Needs Being Violated
Which of YOUR needs are threatened in this relationship? Tap all that apply.
Their Needs Being Violated
Which of THEIR needs might you be threatening? Tap all that apply.
Laws Being Violated
Based on the needs, which natural laws are being broken? Tap all that apply.
How Will You Meet the Need?
Before enforcement comes connection. How will you actively meet their core needs?
Enforcement You Need
What do YOU need to do to protect needs and enforce the laws? Tap all that apply.
Obedience You Need to Give
What do YOU need to do to align with the natural laws? Tap all that apply.
Accept Your Commitments
Review what you proposed. Tap once to mark ✓ Already doing. Tap again to + Commit to add.
Only items marked with + will appear in your final TODO list.
Ask: "What do you think? What are you willing to do?"
Your needs:
Their needs:
This is what the 4 LAWS says about your relationship.
Find the need. Rebuild the trust.
The Sanctuary welcomes the weary, the broken, the couples who've lost their way, the parents at the end of their rope.
The 4 LAWS were given. Now they're being given through you.
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