Forced Goodness - the Cause of Parent/Child Distrust
The natural parent-child bond is crucial for healthy development, but forced goodness destroys this trust and creates serious problems.
How Forced Goodness Kills True Goodness
Three devastating problems arise: loss of trust, burdensome parenting, and children losing self-esteem while becoming susceptible to negative influences. Good behavior must be chosen to create lasting growth. Forced behavior only happens when parents watch.
The Solution: Chosen Goodness
Offer children choices that meet their emotional needs within their capabilities. Good choices feel like success, create lasting growth, and eliminate burdensome parenting. Remain their safe harbor while using the 4 LAWS to guide wiser decisions.
