TRUST REPAIR
4 LAWS Academy
Trust Repair
Something broke. Let's find the way back.
STEP ONE
Who is this between?
Just first names. No one else needs to know.
YOUR NAME
THEIR NAME
YOUR ROLE
THEIR ROLE
STEP TWO
How did trust get broken?
Tap what fits. Then tell us which need was hurt.
Which need was hurt?
🛡️
Safety
I didn't feel safe
Law of Limits
🎯
Possession
Something of mine was taken or ignored
Law of Responsibility
💛
Belonging
I felt like I didn't matter
Law of Respect
✨
Create
What I love to do was shut down
Law of Talent
STEP THREE
Now flip it. What is your part?
The 4 LAWS apply to everyone. Even you.
Which of their needs did you affect?
🛡️
Their Safety
I made them feel unsafe
Law of Limits
🎯
Their Possession
I took or ignored what was theirs
Law of Responsibility
💛
Their Belonging
I made them feel invisible
Law of Respect
✨
Their Fire
I shut down something they love
Law of Talent
STEP FOUR
What does each person owe?
Every broken trust creates a debt. Name it simply. Keep it real.
WHAT THEY OWE YOU
To earn your trust back, what do they need to do or give?
WHAT YOU OWE THEM
To earn their trust back, what do you need to do or give?
STEP FIVE
What does each person need to make it possible?
A debt without a ramp is just a wish. What support, step, or tool makes this real?
YOUR RAMP
What do you need to follow through on what you owe?
THEIR RAMP
What do they need to follow through on what they owe?
STEP SIX
Is this fair?
A fence only works if both people helped build it. Does this feel right to both of you?
YOUR AGREEMENT
Can you do what you said you owe?
THEIR AGREEMENT
Have you talked to them? Can they do what they owe?
The Ninja is reading your repair...
What Comes Next
Two paths. You choose which one you walk.
IF YOU BOTH FOLLOW THROUGH
IF THIS GETS LEFT HERE
BUILD MY PATH →
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